#TrueFriend
In my scripture study last week I was reminded of the importance of a #TrueFriend. I have only a few, but as I read I liked the importance and commitment of being a #TrueFriend what a great story. Sometimes I think we really know way too much about David, from his start in war with Goliath to his start on Pornography from the roof tops!! The thing is, he is a good man, it's a human story of striving to do Gods' will and be a #BetterMan. I very much like the lessons Jonathan teaches (I think he doesn't get enough credit which is what the story is really about right!) the lessons I want to apply are his principles and actions concerning friendship and hope, as I strive to be more like David and Jonathon than like Saul in my everyday life.
“All of us will be
tested and all of us need true friends to love us, to listen to us, to show us
the way and to testify of truth to us, so that we can retain the companionship
of the Holy Ghost YOU must be such a True Friend.” Eyring
“Everyone needs good and true friends.
They will be a great strength and blessing to you. They will influence how you
think and act, and even help determine the person you will become. They will
help you be a better person and will make it easier for you to live the gospel
of Jesus Christ. Choose friends who share your values so you can strengthen and
encourage each other in living high standards.
To have good friends, be a good friend.
Show genuine interest in others; smile and let them know you care about them.
Treat everyone with kindness and respect, and refrain from judging and
criticizing those around you. Do not participate in any form of bullying. Make
a special effort to be a friend to those who are shy or lonely, have special
needs, or do not feel included.
As you seek to be a friend to others, do
not compromise your standards. If your friends urge you to do things that are
wrong, be the one to stand for the right, even if you stand alone. You may need
to find other friends who will support you in keeping the commandments. Seek
the guidance of the Holy Ghost as you make these choices.” For the Strength of
Youth
“there are going to be times in our lives when someone else gets an unexpected
blessing or receives some special recognition. May I plead with us not to be
hurt—and certainly not to feel envious—when good fortune comes to another
person? We are not diminished when someone else is added upon. We are not in a
race against each other to see who is the wealthiest or the most talented or
the most beautiful or even the most blessed. The race we are really in is the
race against sin, and surely envy is one of the most universal of those.
Furthermore, envy is a mistake that just keeps on giving.” Holland
Marvin
J Ashton excerpts of a talk entitled “What is A Friend” 1972;
·
Someone has said, “A friend is a person who is willing to take
me the way I am.” Accepting this as one definition of the word, may I quickly
suggest that we are something less than a real friend if we leave a person the
same way we find him. There seems to be
a misunderstanding on the part of some men today as to what it means to be a
friend. Acts of a friend should result in self-improvement, better attitudes,
self-reliance, comfort, consolation, self-respect, and better welfare.
Certainly the word friend is misused if it is
identified with a person who contributes to our delinquency, misery, and
heartaches. When we make a man feel he is wanted, his whole attitude changes.
Our friendship will be recognizable if our actions and attitudes result in
improvement and independence. Listen to talk here.
·
As we more fully
strive to comprehend the significance of friendship, the more our appreciation
should increase for the truths found in the following quotation: “Pure religion and undefiled before God and
the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and
to keep himself unspotted from the world.” (James 1:27.)
· It is well for us to be reminded that we are friends to
ourselves when we keep our lives unspotted from the sins of the world and leave
ourselves better tomorrow than we are today. It is a worthy daily goal to be a
true friend to one’s self.
·
Our responsibility to the widow and the fatherless is to accept
them as we find them, but to not leave them without improvement. Ours is to
lift the heavy heart, say the encouraging word, and assist in supplying the
daily needs.
· Aren’t we something less than a friend if we have the gospel of
Jesus Christ and are unwilling to share it by word and example with a family, a
member, neighbor, or the stranger? Aren’t we something less than a friend if we
have a testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ and are unwilling to share it?
· A friend is a possession we earn, not a gift.*
·
It was Emerson who said,
“The only way to have a friend is to be one.” No one can be a friend until he
is known. A friend is a person who will really take the time not only to know
us, but to be with us. One of the finest presents you can give anyone is your
best self.
·
No greater reward can come to any of us
as we serve than a sincere “Thank you for being my friend.” When those who need
assistance find their way back through and with us, it is friendship in action.
When the weak are made strong and the strong stronger through our lives,
friendship is real. If a man can be judged by his friends, he can also be
measured by their heights.
· How can we
help a friend? An Arabian proverb helps us answer: “A friend is one to whom one
may pour out all the contents of one’s heart, chaff and grain together, knowing
that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping,
and with the breath of kindness blow the rest away.”
Yes, a friend is a person who is willing to take me the way I am
but who is willing and able to leave me better than he found me
I bear you my witness that our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, is our
friend. In his loving processes of command, rebuke, greeting, revelation,
encouragement, and long-suffering, he daily proves this. *Certainly he is willing
to take us the way we are, but he wants to leave us improved in his word and
his paths.
