My Happiness Project Dec.

December was my practice, second practice month.  Thank goodness because with Christmas involved it was hard to keep focused.  I will be bringing several resolutions forward, but mostly to keep and even in some cases, to start working on them.  I can see that the ideas and words are in my mind though and the applications are being made.  It's about to get real now, I can't call the future months "practice months"! I am and do want to return and report for December - for my own documentation sake!!

I can see that I need to continuously work on being a Light in the World - I think about me and mine way more than I should. I loved working on projects for #LightTheWorld, I love Christmas and Giving to my loved ones.

I totally lost focus on my health from November.  I ate without thinking and with no regard. I need to WORK at this.  Even though it is not listed as a resolution or even as a goal in 2017, it is in the background ALL OVER THE PLACE my hope is in not dwelling on it and applying good habits of eating and moving I am striving to not tell myself what I can't do but what I can do.

My actual journal pages are well seemingly personal so no pics this month.  Not much rhetoric either.
Civility is Jan. I am actually looking forward to learning and doing and changing my thought process because of this resolution!

I am so grateful for December and for the family love that it brings into my life and all of yours.

Don't waste time being offended

A deep thought for those I love in a world of taking offense and darkness... One time when AZ (he's my youngest son) was a few months old my brother, my oldest brother Tim shook him unnecessarily screaming in his face and then laughed.  Lets be clear he did this just for the hell of it! He'd been drinking as usual. I took my baby away from him, I yelled at him and we all sat back down to visit.  Later Timmy apologized picked up AZ and did it again! That night my other brother, Tom (I call my little brother he's seven years older than me) slept on the floor by my daughter AA  who was sleeping on the couch, he did so with a gun in his hand --  I'm only assuming that it was because he was afraid of what might happen. My point here is I was offended I was so offended that I didn't speak to my brother Tim for 10 years.  My brother Timmy never shook me or struck me, I admired him and looked up to him so much. He was fun, funny, loving, he told the best stories, he had the best laugh, he could be kind generous and hilarious. He was a great worker. A soldier to be proud of.  He loved carpentery work and brick work.  When he came home from Panama I didn't think there was anything in the world better or cooler than Tim Michael McCoy my brother a green beret!  Don't get me wrong he could scare the crap out of me he had serious PTSD when he came home from Vietnam and he drank way too much! But I regress, Back to my point I was offended And because of that wasted 10 years of not talking to him. While social media allows us to all get to know each other and be closer we can also be offended. While friends, family, neighbors think other friends family and neighbors don't live life right or are not doing whatever they think they should be doing one can be offended. I just want to take this opportunity to encourage us not to be offended.  To let ya'll in on a little secret I don't use or appreciate the Fword, I don't like porn, I don't like some politics, I dont care for some of the memes that get posted!!!  But if I'm friends with you on social media its for a reason maybe I admire you, or I really am interested in your outlook on life, maybe I love you, I love your kids and I love being able to see you through the marvelous invention of technology. I don't know why I didn't get to know some of you better than others of you but another little secret - I'm not deleting you. I'm not walking away offended!   Everyday and every night I pray for good things to happen in your lives and for you to like yourselves and be your best selves to and for those you have in your family here and now.  Start now to Not be on the defense always being offending, putting up walls, blocking interaction, connections we all need! Choose instead to Be Positive, no regrets of 10 years that you will never ever get back being offended. I do what I can when I can to support you and know you with what is available to me. This world teaches us to be offended let's choose to not be. I should have told Timmy "you're an idiot" and moved on versus my choice of being prideful and holding a grudge only making Me jaded and dark.   I love my brother and I miss him.  #spreadthelove #standtall #volunteerPTSD #findjoy #LightTheWorld #dontBeOffended #beforgiving #usewisejudment #lovetheoneyourwith #dontJudge #familiesareforever #peaceout